Anonymous asked: I have my clit peirced. I have for many years now but when I first got it done I came when it was done and I was in a constant state of arousal for like a week after. Sounds fun but oh god did I get nothing done.
Wow. I’ve always wondered what sort of effect getting a piercing there would have. Now I know it’s an awesome one.
Anonymous asked: Once, when I was having sex with my girlfriend (I'm also a girl), I made the loudest queef that has ever been heard. Both of us just froze, and it was the most awkward silence I've ever experienced. But then we just burst out laughing and carried on.
Anonymous asked: I'm a profesional bellydancer and for a while I just didn't feel sexy enough. My moves were fine but it lacked that 'umph' that wins the crowd. So one night I was really frustrated about my troupe and my costume and life in general so I took the problem 'into my own hands' so to say. It was one of the best shows I'd ever done. Now it's part of my get ready ritual!
I highly approve of every word of this.
Anonymous asked: I was indulging in a bit of self-pleasure one night, when everyone was asleep. My door was closed and I was being quiet, when suddenly I got a text. It was from my mom, asking me to keep it down. I was too mortified to finish.
Anonymous asked: I have an adage that I often repeat in regards to breast size on women I'm attracted to: "More than a handful is sort of a waste." It's not like I don't /like/ bigger boobs, but depending on body type large boobs kind of intimidate me, especially if the girl's boobs are bigger than mine.
I tend to find that if a girl has large breasts, she prefers a partner with small breasts, and vice versa. However, there are exceptions to every rule. I honestly don’t think the majority of people have anything against certain breast sizes, they just… lean towards a particular end of the scale more.
I can understand being intimidated by large breasts. I personally have… rather sizable ones, and quite frankly they intimidate me sometimes. Of course, one must remember that most of us don’t choose our boob size, and that it’s much better to look behind them and at the heart of a person.
I guess what I’m saying is; it’s fine to prefer a certain boob size, but if you like the person… don’t let it be a dealbreaker.
Anonymous asked: My first boyfriend had braces, and the first time he went down on me, my pubes got all caught up in them, and we actually got stuck for a while. Needless to say, it was a while before we tried that again.
Sweet baby cheeses, that sounds incredibly painful. And awkward.
That’d be a mortifying experience to go through. But I’m glad you didn’t give up on the idea completely, just used a bit more… caution.
Anonymous asked: I keep thinking I'm attracted to the same guys (who are my close friends) over and over, but I think it's because they're the only guys who have ever cared about me and who have openly enjoyed me as a person. I sometimes overlook flaws that I would hate in a boyfriend or even the fact that I'm not that attracted to them just because I want to be with someone who cares. :/
It makes sense completely. If you’re surrounded by people of the gender (or genders) that you’re attracted to, and you’re friends with them, it’s not surprising that you’d get feelings for them. If they’re transient, then they probably are just because you’re receiving attention from someone you’re close to, who’s not related and is also of the gender you’re attracted to. Which I realise sounds rather obvious.
There are people I know who get crushes all the time. The heart doesn’t like to be without hope, and when you’re friends with the gender you’re attracted to, it can sometimes be difficult, and lines may blur. You sound at least like you know what your feelings are, and you sound like you know what you want, which is a big step towards not ruining any friendships based on possibly erroneous feelings.
howmanyfingers asked: JAMIELICIOUS. I would like to address the last Anon (Silent-Ninja Anon) in regards to noise. It is a misconception that loud noises are a sign of pure sexual ecstasy. They might be, in some cases, but, from personal experience, it's the quiet sounds (little gasps and groans and squeaks) that count. Being silent is okay, perfectly natural. I am definitely not a loud person but that doesn't mean I'm not enjoying masturbating, because I do. If you have a partner, let them know. It's okay. :3
I would agree with this entirely. If the noises you make detract from the pleasure, then… you’re forcing them. If they’re a result of the pleasure, then that’s really all they’re meant to be.
